We have all either known or heard of someone who has gone on an extended trip to the developing world and come back a different person. Typically they are young people taking a gap year and carry all their possessions in a backpack. When they return home, they exude an aura of calm, compassion and worldly peacefulness. They are some how in the world but not of it, and all they can think about is their next trip. They have clearly been bitten by more than just the travel bug. It leaves you wondering, how can I get some of that?
Increasingly, people of all ages are seeking life changing travel experiences. Middle aged or older adults may be seeking the “gap” opportunity they missed out on by going directly from high school to post-secondary education or work. For others, it may be the first time in their lives that they have both the disposable income and lighter family responsibilities that make this type of adventure possible.
In theory, anyone can strap on a backpack, book a ticket to Beijing and reap the benefits of travel. In fact, my husband and I did just that with our two children a couple of years ago. We had plenty of time and were able to figure out a lot of things “on the fly,” such as local transportation.
Of course, that kind of spontaneity is not always possible. A more structured experience is sometimes needed, something where someone else has done the homework and the legwork required to prepare a travel itinerary. As well, for some people a more concentrated experience is desirable, one where the life enhancing benefits of travel can be achieved within a week or two, rather than over a period of months.
As an alternative to random traveling, many people want an adventure that challenges them in developing a specific skill or targets a particular experience. This is called travel with purpose. If this is what you are looking for, a travel retreat may provide the optimal experience.
The primary difference between a tour and a travel retreat is that a retreat will have a purpose beyond merely seeing tourist sites. A retreat will provide you with a much deeper experience. You may learn or develop a skill, such as cooking, meditation, or yoga. Or you may want a retreat that provides an opportunity for self-reflection and personal development, especially important when facing a life transition such as divorce, retirement, loss of a spouse or “empty nest” syndrome.
Another advantage of a travel retreat is that it offers greater flexibility than a tour, and the more intimate group size allows the retreat leader to tailor the experience to the needs and desires of the individuals within a group. Essentially, it provides an individual experience within the safety of a facilitated group experience. Highly experienced retreat leaders keep you within an elastic embrace while knowing when to “let you loose”. In other words someone else is in charge, eliminating the nuisances of travel, while allowing you the fullness of the experience.
The best travel retreats include a volunteer experience or cultural immersion component. Retreats will have partnerships with local individuals and organizations that allow you to get off the beaten path, something that can be very difficult to arrange on your own. This is where you reap the real benefit of travel – getting away from the tourist traps, meeting real people as they live their real lives. It is these authentic experiences that transform us. And the retreat provides the context for that to happen.